PinnedThe Survivor CenterFeeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, Revictimized? Part 2In the last post, I talked about how our society has been conditioned to blame the victim and to look for reasons why the victim provoked…4 min read·Oct 6, 2022----
PinnedThe Survivor CenterFeeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, or Revictimized? Part 1Has anyone ever made you, a victim of abuse, feel like you were to blame? Or that you did something to make the abuse happen? Or ask…3 min read·Oct 4, 2022----
PinnedThe Survivor CenterIs Struggling Single Mom Your Identity?Single Mom life is difficult. No question. Sometimes you struggle in certain areas — financially, relationally, dealing with a lack of…3 min read·Sep 10, 2022----
PinnedThe Survivor CenterHow to Stop Your Narcissist Ex from Bullying YouDid you just read the title of this post and think, “Yes, great! She’s going to tell me exactly what to say to shut him down and stop his…3 min read·Nov 2, 2021----
PinnedThe Survivor CenterTake Back Your Power From a NarcissistThis one might sting a little bit.2 min read·Aug 13, 2021--1--1
The Survivor CenterDecide and DeclareI spent 24 years in a relationship with a narcissistic sociopath. Twenty-four years of brainwashing, degrading, demeaning my self esteem…·4 min read·Jan 31, 2023----
The Survivor CenterTime to Clean House: Social Media EditionThe new year is a time that many people use to make changes in their lives. It’s a great time to “clean house” and make decisions that will…·3 min read·Jan 24, 2023----
The Survivor CenterWhen They Turn Their Abuse Onto the KidsHow many times have you questioned your decision to leave the narcissist abuser? The post-separation abuse towards you is excruciating. But…·3 min read·Jan 17, 2023----
The Survivor CenterStop Expecting His S*!t to Be S*!ttySharing custody with a narcissist is a pretty shitty situation, agreed?·2 min read·Jan 10, 2023----
The Survivor CenterIt’s Not Either/Or. It’s Always/Both With A Narcissist.How many years during your relationship with the ex did you spend walking on eggshells, trying to keep him happy so that he wouldn’t blow…·2 min read·Jan 3, 2023----