PinnedFeeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, Revictimized? Part 2In the last post, I talked about how our society has been conditioned to blame the victim and to look for reasons why the victim provoked…Oct 6, 2022Oct 6, 2022
PinnedFeeling Victim Blamed, Shamed, or Revictimized? Part 1Has anyone ever made you, a victim of abuse, feel like you were to blame? Or that you did something to make the abuse happen? Or ask…Oct 4, 2022Oct 4, 2022
PinnedIs Struggling Single Mom Your Identity?Single Mom life is difficult. No question. Sometimes you struggle in certain areas — financially, relationally, dealing with a lack of…Sep 10, 2022Sep 10, 2022
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PinnedTake Back Your Power From a NarcissistThis one might sting a little bit.Aug 13, 20211Aug 13, 20211
Decide and DeclareI spent 24 years in a relationship with a narcissistic sociopath. Twenty-four years of brainwashing, degrading, demeaning my self esteem…Jan 31, 2023Jan 31, 2023
Time to Clean House: Social Media EditionThe new year is a time that many people use to make changes in their lives. It’s a great time to “clean house” and make decisions that will…Jan 24, 2023Jan 24, 2023
When They Turn Their Abuse Onto the KidsHow many times have you questioned your decision to leave the narcissist abuser? The post-separation abuse towards you is excruciating. But…Jan 17, 2023Jan 17, 2023
Stop Expecting His S*!t to Be S*!ttySharing custody with a narcissist is a pretty shitty situation, agreed?Jan 10, 2023Jan 10, 2023
It’s Not Either/Or. It’s Always/Both With A Narcissist.How many years during your relationship with the ex did you spend walking on eggshells, trying to keep him happy so that he wouldn’t blow…Jan 3, 2023Jan 3, 2023
